You, there! Put down the Mod Podge for a minute. We need to talk.
It started with Etsy and the rise of the handmade movement. Suddenly the hipster kids were knitting and homemade gifts began to be cool not cheap.
With the phenomenal explosion of Pinterest and every girl and her mum having a blog, suddenly it seems that craft is no longer a relaxing hobby but a twisted version of keeping up with the Joneses. Now you’re taking a macaron-making class just to cater for your one-year-old’s birthday party or crafting your entire wedding even though you’ve never been in a craft store in your life. And don’t even get me started on the madness that is Halloween.
Before you call me on it, I’ll say I’m not oblivious to the potential irony of a DIY blogger questioning the craft movement. Yes, I love craft, doing DIY projects around our home and cooking from scratch when entertaining guests. I’m truly happy to see a return to values placed on the handmade and homemade.
The problem occurs when it becomes some kind of obligation that you don’t remember signing up for. I worry that the chevron handcuffs have become some new kind of 1950s expectation for women (except that you now have to fit in a career and daily yoga).
I just want us all to stop for a moment, think about what we’re doing and why.
The DIY culture should not be about calling in sick to work so that you can make that 7-layer rainbow cake for tonight’s party even though you hate baking. It’s not about feeling like a failure as a mother because your baby’s nursery isn’t styled to magazine-worthy perfection.
It’s about rediscovering the value in handmade. It’s about:
- having a go at something new and the satisfaction of accomplishing it
- buying one beautiful artisan-made vase instead of five mass-produced cheapies
- taking the time to select a thoughtful gift from an independent artist or designer
- knowing that if you can’t find an item you’re looking for you can make it yourself
- the enjoyment of the process of using your hands
- delighting in the imperfections of a handmade item
If there are tasks and crafts that you enjoy doing yourself: keep them, cherish them.
For everything else: use what you have, buy what you need and forget the rest.
It’s time to lose the guilt.